Here are 29 Questions answered as simple as possible – but as effective as possible. All about relationships, engagement, anal, abortions, virginity, weight issues between a couple, your partner hurting you, you hurting your partner. There are also questions and answers about your partners ex that passed away. I included questions and answers about being a good or bad girlfriend too. If you have fears about your relationship then here are a few Q&As for you and a lot more.
1Q: My boyfriend fantasizes about other women. What do I do now?
A: Well there is not much that you can do. Men fantasize about other women all the time and there is nothing odd about it. You might be stressing for nothing. He is still with you ain’t he? So you must be doing something right.
2Q: I want to get engaged, my man doesn’t. What is a girl to do?
A: This is quite simple. Don’t pressure him or you will push him away. He will do it when the time is right – let him be. You aren’t missing much.
3Q: I want to get engaged to feel that I belong.
A: That is kind of a strange reason to want to get engaged. I’m sure you love this person but things happen when they are supposed to. Be patient – it might be worth the wait you know.
4Q: My partner wants to do anal and I don’t.
A: Umm, I know that you want to experiment with this or enjoy it but people have choice and don’t you think that there are other ways of doing it? You can’t force someone to have sex with you via your bum. It might even be for your own good because this person could be inexperienced and not use enough lube and hurt the inside. If this person does not want to do it then let them be you aren’t missing much.
5Q: I had an abortion quite some time ago – is it too late to tell my partner now?
A: It is never too late to tell the truth.
Q: My girlfriend is a virgin. We have decided, together, that I’m going to be her first.
A: So you both know what you want. Be gentle. Buy some candles. Start with a romantic bath with foam bath, candles that light the room (red and pink). Make out in the bath. When you are done caressing, kissing and building the passion – take it to the candlelit bedroom. She is going to be nervous and scared inside – it’s her first time.
6Q: I’m not a virgin. I feel like I have nothing to give my boyfriend. What am I to do?
A: Bring a virgin can be mentally too. It doesn’t mean that because you lost it physically you can’t give it mentally to your partner. Explain that to your partner.
7Q: My girlfriend is getting fat and I hate fat people. Its either she loses weight or I dump her. What should I do?
A: Tell her how you feel. She will either understand and ask you to help her lose weight or you will get a bitch-slap maybe even killed – joke. If she agrees to lose weight then support her and help get some info and programs. Might I add that it is very superficial of you to dump her because of a few pounds?
8Q: My girlfriend is getting fat and I am worried about her health. What should I do?
A: Tell her how you feel. She will either understand and ask you to help her lose weight or you will get a bitch-slap maybe even killed – joke. If she agrees to lose weight then support her and help get some info and programs.
9Q: My girlfriend fantasizes about other men. What do I do now?
A: Well there is not much that you can do. You might be stressing for nothing. She is still with you ain’t she? So you must be doing something right. Just keep a close eye on the situation.
10Q: I want to engaged, my woman doesn’t. What is a guy to do?
A: This is quite simple. Don’t pressure her or you will push her away. She will let you know when the time is right – let her be. It will be something great and one of the best days in your life. Be patient.
11Q: I want to move n with my boyfriend badly, what do I do?
A: Let a hint slip now and then or ask him to his face. The worse he could do is say no. If he isn’t ready then you have to respect that.
12Q: Does my partner need to know of my past because it will hurt him if he hears it.
A: No your partner doesn’t need to know of your past. If you don’t talk about it he can’t ask you about it. And only tell him what he needs to know. The basic facts.
13Q: I have to tell my boyfriend how I’m feeling otherwise I’m bottling it up but it hurts him – what do I do?
A: You don’t have to bottle it up and it only feels that you’re bottling it up because you are thinking it. The mind is a powerful thing. Tell him in a nice way. You don’t have to blurt everything out you know you can sugar-coat your words.
14Q: My boyfriend wants me to move in with him but I’m too scared to take the chance. What do I do?
A: Life is about taking chances. What’s the worse that can happen?
15Q: I’m scared of losing my partner. I’m going out of my mind with worries. Please tell me what I should do.
A: Oh my gosh, ouch, this is something most of us worry about. There is no use is worrying. He/she is gonna leave if he/she wants to and there is nothing you can do to stop the person but you can show him/her what he/she would be losing if he/she left. Just enjoy the time you have with your partner. Put on a brave face.
16Q: I’m starting to doubt whether I can make my partner happy. Am I a good or a bad partner and what am I to do?
A: Judging by the fact that you are here and trying to find out what to do tells me that you are putting or trying to put effort in this relationship. Nothing and nobody is perfect, hun. Only you can judge by your standard whether you are a good or bad partner. It is for your partner to decide whether you can make him/her happy. Maybe it’s not even you that’s making him/her unhappy. He/she could be under a lot of stress at work
17Q: My boyfriend wants me to have sex with him while I have my periods. It grosses me out. Help?!
A: Periods is part of nature and sex is part of nature – so why not do both? If you really don’t want to then tell him but you should maybe at least try considering it. Get a red towel to place under you.
18Q: I want my girlfriend to moan while I satisfy her but she doesn’t. Help, what do I do?
A: Most gals are too shy – let her know how you feel and that it is sexy to you. Also consider that maybe she isn’t getting the feeling she should. There could be something medically wrong.
19Q: My partner died a year ago and I have met a new person. Am I ready to move on?
A: Let me begin by saying I’m sorry about your loss and that it must’ve been very difficult for you and I sympathize. Only you can decide whether you are ready if not. You will be able to feel it in your heart – when you are ready, you will be able to feel ready.
20Q: My ex lost our baby and I cannot get over it. What can I do?
A: The only thing I can suggest is talk to your ex partner about going for counseling together. This will rip your apart if you do not go for help. Make an appointment ASAP.
21Q: I’m pregnant and I want an abortion but my partner doesn’t believe in abortion.
A: Well I guess he didn’t believe in condoms or contraceptive either. You should’ve thought of these things way earlier but hey people learn from their mistakes. Ask him to get more information with you from clinic. Get brochures and talk about it. If her doesn’t budge then so be it. He will have to provide for that child. Having a baby might not be so bad. At least you have a man who cares about you and wants a family – most people don’t have that luxury.
22Q: I cheated on my boyfriend – how do I tell him?
A: Tell him with all sincerity and let him know that you regret it. Ask him for forgiveness.
23Q: My boyfriend hits me, what do I do?
A: You can’t change a man that hits women. Go to your nearest family member and tell them. Go to the police and make a case ASAP please. This is your life we are talking about.
24Q: My partner doesn’t look me in the eyes when having sex.
A: Talk to your partner about this. Your partner might not even be noticing that he/she is doing this. Take into consideration that your partner might just be living the moment.
25Q: My partners getting distant – what do I do?
A: There’s not much you can do. Ask your partner why he/she is getting distant and be prepared to hear bad news. Try to resolve this issue your relationship deserves it.
26Q: My girlfriend wants me to have sex with her while she has her periods. It grosses me out. Help?!
A: Periods is part of nature and sex is part of nature – so why not do both? If you really don’t want to then tell her but you should maybe at least try considering it. Get a red towel to place under her.
27Q: My partner accuses me of cheating and so help me God, I’m not cheating! How do I get this bull out of his head?
A: He might just be very jealous and you have to help him with that. When he gets jealous over something then you just have to tell him that you love him and only him etc etc. You will have to reassure him to build his confidence in the relationship.
28Q: Is it too soon to move on?
A: Nobody can tell you whether it is too soon to move on and you will feel it in your gut when you are ready to move on. Just keep in mind that it's gonna hurt your partner to see you move on within the first month.
29Q: My boyfriend won’t say he loves me and sometimes I feel it’s asking him too much. Am I wrong?
A: No, you are absolutely not wrong for asking. If he is just playing on your feelings in any way whatsoever then he is wrong. He can’t love you but let you worry just for the fun of it. You are not his toy, you are his partner.
30Q: I’m scared of losing my boyfriend. I’m going out of my mind with worries. Please tell me what I should do.
A: Oh my gosh, ouch, this is something most of us girls worry about. There is no use is worrying. He is gonna leave if he wants to and there is nothing you can do to stop him but you can show him what he would be losing if he left. Just enjoy the time you have with him. Put on a brave face.
31Q: I’m starting to doubt whether I can make my boyfriend happy. Am I a good or a bad girlfriend and what am I to do?
A: Judging by the fact that you are here and trying to find out what to do tells me that you are putting or trying to put effort in this relationship. Nothing and nobody is perfect, hun. Only you can judge by your standard whether you are a good or bad girlfriend. It is for your boyfriend to decide whether you can make him happy. Maybe it’s not even you that’s making him unhappy. He could be under a lot of stress at work
32Q: I lost our baby and my partner cannot get over it. What can we do?
A: The only thing I can suggest is talk to your partner about going for counseling together. This will rip your relationship apart if you do not go for help. Make an appointment ASAP.
33Q: How can I tell whether my partner was pregnant before from another man but lost the baby? Can this be why they broke up?
A: Just ask your partner straight to her face. If she lies just wait – she will tell you the truth in her own time when she is ready. This could be the reason they broke up but this was before you so do not worry about nothing.
34Q: My boyfriend died a year ago and I have met a new person. Am I ready to move on?
A: Let me begin by saying I am sorry about your loss and that it must have been very difficult for you and I sympathize. Only you can decide whether you are ready if not. You will be able to feel it in your heart – when you are ready, you will be able to feel ready.
35Q: I want to phone my partner – but I don’t have a job to pay for airtime.
A: Yes your partner would love to receive a phone call from you now and then but explain to your partner. He/she will understand. You will find a job soon and then you can spoil your partner.
36Q: My partner got badly burned and disfigured in an accident. What do I do?
A: If this is true love then you’ll love the person for what’s inside not outside and it shouldn’t make a difference to you. He/she is still the same person inside. This is where you prove yourself worthy of love.
37Q: My partner can’t get erect anymore. What now?
A: Go to your GP or a pharmacy and ask for your options (pills etc).
38Q: I want to ask my girlfriend to marry me, is it the right thing to do?
A: If you love her very dearly then please do J
39Q: I want my girlfriend to move in with me but I’m too scared to take the chance. What do I do?
A: Life is about taking chances. What’s the worse that can happen?
40Q: I want to get engaged to my girlfriend but I’m too scared. What now?
A: Life is about taking chances.
41Q: I’m a virgin. Do I give my virginity to my boyfriend?
A: You don’t have to give it to the first person you meet. Make sure this person is sincere and likes you for you and isn’t just around to use you.
42Q: I have to tell my girlfriend how I’m feeling otherwise I’m bottling it up but it hurts her – what do I do?
A: You don’t have to bottle it up and it only feels that you’re bottling it up because you are thinking it. The mind is a powerful thing. Tell her in a nice way. You don’t have to blurt everything out you know you can sugar-coat your words.
43Q: Does my partner need to know of my past because it will hurt her if she hears it.
A: No your partner doesn’t need to know of your past. If you don’t talk about it she can’t ask you about it. And only tell her what she needs to know. The basic facts.
44Q: Having sex hurts physically, do I tell my partner?
A: Yes you do and you should tell him that as soon as possible. It might be something medical.
45Q: My husband controls me – what must I do?
A; Sometimes it is nice to have a partner who comments on what he would like you to wear or how he would like you to wear your hair. The problem comes when you are too independent. Just watch out that it wont turn into an abusive relationship.
46Q: Must I choose my partner or my career?
A: We as humans are created to love and be loved and nobody can make that decision for you. It is for you to decide which one is more important to you.
47Q: Am I doing too much for my partner?
A: There is no such thing except when the other person doesn’t appreciate what you are doing or is taking advantage.
48Q: I found condoms in my partner car – but we don’t use condoms. Help!
A: One word, confrontation. Confront your partner and then look for any sign or gut feelings that the person is lying.
49Q: My partner doesn’t like me touching him – what’s a girl to do?
A: Some men just are like that but he should respect that you want to touch him. Compromise. Come to a conclusion together.
1Q: My boyfriend fantasizes about other women. What do I do now?
A: Well there is not much that you can do. Men fantasize about other women all the time and there is nothing odd about it. You might be stressing for nothing. He is still with you ain’t he? So you must be doing something right.
2Q: I want to get engaged, my man doesn’t. What is a girl to do?
A: This is quite simple. Don’t pressure him or you will push him away. He will do it when the time is right – let him be. You aren’t missing much.
3Q: I want to get engaged to feel that I belong.
A: That is kind of a strange reason to want to get engaged. I’m sure you love this person but things happen when they are supposed to. Be patient – it might be worth the wait you know.
4Q: My partner wants to do anal and I don’t.
A: Umm, I know that you want to experiment with this or enjoy it but people have choice and don’t you think that there are other ways of doing it? You can’t force someone to have sex with you via your bum. It might even be for your own good because this person could be inexperienced and not use enough lube and hurt the inside. If this person does not want to do it then let them be you aren’t missing much.
5Q: I had an abortion quite some time ago – is it too late to tell my partner now?
A: It is never too late to tell the truth.
Q: My girlfriend is a virgin. We have decided, together, that I’m going to be her first.
A: So you both know what you want. Be gentle. Buy some candles. Start with a romantic bath with foam bath, candles that light the room (red and pink). Make out in the bath. When you are done caressing, kissing and building the passion – take it to the candlelit bedroom. She is going to be nervous and scared inside – it’s her first time.
6Q: I’m not a virgin. I feel like I have nothing to give my boyfriend. What am I to do?
A: Bring a virgin can be mentally too. It doesn’t mean that because you lost it physically you can’t give it mentally to your partner. Explain that to your partner.
7Q: My girlfriend is getting fat and I hate fat people. Its either she loses weight or I dump her. What should I do?
A: Tell her how you feel. She will either understand and ask you to help her lose weight or you will get a bitch-slap maybe even killed – joke. If she agrees to lose weight then support her and help get some info and programs. Might I add that it is very superficial of you to dump her because of a few pounds?
8Q: My girlfriend is getting fat and I am worried about her health. What should I do?
A: Tell her how you feel. She will either understand and ask you to help her lose weight or you will get a bitch-slap maybe even killed – joke. If she agrees to lose weight then support her and help get some info and programs.
9Q: My girlfriend fantasizes about other men. What do I do now?
A: Well there is not much that you can do. You might be stressing for nothing. She is still with you ain’t she? So you must be doing something right. Just keep a close eye on the situation.
10Q: I want to engaged, my woman doesn’t. What is a guy to do?
A: This is quite simple. Don’t pressure her or you will push her away. She will let you know when the time is right – let her be. It will be something great and one of the best days in your life. Be patient.
11Q: I want to move n with my boyfriend badly, what do I do?
A: Let a hint slip now and then or ask him to his face. The worse he could do is say no. If he isn’t ready then you have to respect that.
12Q: Does my partner need to know of my past because it will hurt him if he hears it.
A: No your partner doesn’t need to know of your past. If you don’t talk about it he can’t ask you about it. And only tell him what he needs to know. The basic facts.
13Q: I have to tell my boyfriend how I’m feeling otherwise I’m bottling it up but it hurts him – what do I do?
A: You don’t have to bottle it up and it only feels that you’re bottling it up because you are thinking it. The mind is a powerful thing. Tell him in a nice way. You don’t have to blurt everything out you know you can sugar-coat your words.
14Q: My boyfriend wants me to move in with him but I’m too scared to take the chance. What do I do?
A: Life is about taking chances. What’s the worse that can happen?
15Q: I’m scared of losing my partner. I’m going out of my mind with worries. Please tell me what I should do.
A: Oh my gosh, ouch, this is something most of us worry about. There is no use is worrying. He/she is gonna leave if he/she wants to and there is nothing you can do to stop the person but you can show him/her what he/she would be losing if he/she left. Just enjoy the time you have with your partner. Put on a brave face.
16Q: I’m starting to doubt whether I can make my partner happy. Am I a good or a bad partner and what am I to do?
A: Judging by the fact that you are here and trying to find out what to do tells me that you are putting or trying to put effort in this relationship. Nothing and nobody is perfect, hun. Only you can judge by your standard whether you are a good or bad partner. It is for your partner to decide whether you can make him/her happy. Maybe it’s not even you that’s making him/her unhappy. He/she could be under a lot of stress at work
17Q: My boyfriend wants me to have sex with him while I have my periods. It grosses me out. Help?!
A: Periods is part of nature and sex is part of nature – so why not do both? If you really don’t want to then tell him but you should maybe at least try considering it. Get a red towel to place under you.
18Q: I want my girlfriend to moan while I satisfy her but she doesn’t. Help, what do I do?
A: Most gals are too shy – let her know how you feel and that it is sexy to you. Also consider that maybe she isn’t getting the feeling she should. There could be something medically wrong.
19Q: My partner died a year ago and I have met a new person. Am I ready to move on?
A: Let me begin by saying I’m sorry about your loss and that it must’ve been very difficult for you and I sympathize. Only you can decide whether you are ready if not. You will be able to feel it in your heart – when you are ready, you will be able to feel ready.
20Q: My ex lost our baby and I cannot get over it. What can I do?
A: The only thing I can suggest is talk to your ex partner about going for counseling together. This will rip your apart if you do not go for help. Make an appointment ASAP.
21Q: I’m pregnant and I want an abortion but my partner doesn’t believe in abortion.
A: Well I guess he didn’t believe in condoms or contraceptive either. You should’ve thought of these things way earlier but hey people learn from their mistakes. Ask him to get more information with you from clinic. Get brochures and talk about it. If her doesn’t budge then so be it. He will have to provide for that child. Having a baby might not be so bad. At least you have a man who cares about you and wants a family – most people don’t have that luxury.
22Q: I cheated on my boyfriend – how do I tell him?
A: Tell him with all sincerity and let him know that you regret it. Ask him for forgiveness.
23Q: My boyfriend hits me, what do I do?
A: You can’t change a man that hits women. Go to your nearest family member and tell them. Go to the police and make a case ASAP please. This is your life we are talking about.
24Q: My partner doesn’t look me in the eyes when having sex.
A: Talk to your partner about this. Your partner might not even be noticing that he/she is doing this. Take into consideration that your partner might just be living the moment.
25Q: My partners getting distant – what do I do?
A: There’s not much you can do. Ask your partner why he/she is getting distant and be prepared to hear bad news. Try to resolve this issue your relationship deserves it.
26Q: My girlfriend wants me to have sex with her while she has her periods. It grosses me out. Help?!
A: Periods is part of nature and sex is part of nature – so why not do both? If you really don’t want to then tell her but you should maybe at least try considering it. Get a red towel to place under her.
27Q: My partner accuses me of cheating and so help me God, I’m not cheating! How do I get this bull out of his head?
A: He might just be very jealous and you have to help him with that. When he gets jealous over something then you just have to tell him that you love him and only him etc etc. You will have to reassure him to build his confidence in the relationship.
28Q: Is it too soon to move on?
A: Nobody can tell you whether it is too soon to move on and you will feel it in your gut when you are ready to move on. Just keep in mind that it's gonna hurt your partner to see you move on within the first month.
29Q: My boyfriend won’t say he loves me and sometimes I feel it’s asking him too much. Am I wrong?
A: No, you are absolutely not wrong for asking. If he is just playing on your feelings in any way whatsoever then he is wrong. He can’t love you but let you worry just for the fun of it. You are not his toy, you are his partner.
30Q: I’m scared of losing my boyfriend. I’m going out of my mind with worries. Please tell me what I should do.
A: Oh my gosh, ouch, this is something most of us girls worry about. There is no use is worrying. He is gonna leave if he wants to and there is nothing you can do to stop him but you can show him what he would be losing if he left. Just enjoy the time you have with him. Put on a brave face.
31Q: I’m starting to doubt whether I can make my boyfriend happy. Am I a good or a bad girlfriend and what am I to do?
A: Judging by the fact that you are here and trying to find out what to do tells me that you are putting or trying to put effort in this relationship. Nothing and nobody is perfect, hun. Only you can judge by your standard whether you are a good or bad girlfriend. It is for your boyfriend to decide whether you can make him happy. Maybe it’s not even you that’s making him unhappy. He could be under a lot of stress at work
32Q: I lost our baby and my partner cannot get over it. What can we do?
A: The only thing I can suggest is talk to your partner about going for counseling together. This will rip your relationship apart if you do not go for help. Make an appointment ASAP.
33Q: How can I tell whether my partner was pregnant before from another man but lost the baby? Can this be why they broke up?
A: Just ask your partner straight to her face. If she lies just wait – she will tell you the truth in her own time when she is ready. This could be the reason they broke up but this was before you so do not worry about nothing.
34Q: My boyfriend died a year ago and I have met a new person. Am I ready to move on?
A: Let me begin by saying I am sorry about your loss and that it must have been very difficult for you and I sympathize. Only you can decide whether you are ready if not. You will be able to feel it in your heart – when you are ready, you will be able to feel ready.
35Q: I want to phone my partner – but I don’t have a job to pay for airtime.
A: Yes your partner would love to receive a phone call from you now and then but explain to your partner. He/she will understand. You will find a job soon and then you can spoil your partner.
36Q: My partner got badly burned and disfigured in an accident. What do I do?
A: If this is true love then you’ll love the person for what’s inside not outside and it shouldn’t make a difference to you. He/she is still the same person inside. This is where you prove yourself worthy of love.
37Q: My partner can’t get erect anymore. What now?
A: Go to your GP or a pharmacy and ask for your options (pills etc).
38Q: I want to ask my girlfriend to marry me, is it the right thing to do?
A: If you love her very dearly then please do J
39Q: I want my girlfriend to move in with me but I’m too scared to take the chance. What do I do?
A: Life is about taking chances. What’s the worse that can happen?
40Q: I want to get engaged to my girlfriend but I’m too scared. What now?
A: Life is about taking chances.
41Q: I’m a virgin. Do I give my virginity to my boyfriend?
A: You don’t have to give it to the first person you meet. Make sure this person is sincere and likes you for you and isn’t just around to use you.
42Q: I have to tell my girlfriend how I’m feeling otherwise I’m bottling it up but it hurts her – what do I do?
A: You don’t have to bottle it up and it only feels that you’re bottling it up because you are thinking it. The mind is a powerful thing. Tell her in a nice way. You don’t have to blurt everything out you know you can sugar-coat your words.
43Q: Does my partner need to know of my past because it will hurt her if she hears it.
A: No your partner doesn’t need to know of your past. If you don’t talk about it she can’t ask you about it. And only tell her what she needs to know. The basic facts.
44Q: Having sex hurts physically, do I tell my partner?
A: Yes you do and you should tell him that as soon as possible. It might be something medical.
45Q: My husband controls me – what must I do?
A; Sometimes it is nice to have a partner who comments on what he would like you to wear or how he would like you to wear your hair. The problem comes when you are too independent. Just watch out that it wont turn into an abusive relationship.
46Q: Must I choose my partner or my career?
A: We as humans are created to love and be loved and nobody can make that decision for you. It is for you to decide which one is more important to you.
47Q: Am I doing too much for my partner?
A: There is no such thing except when the other person doesn’t appreciate what you are doing or is taking advantage.
48Q: I found condoms in my partner car – but we don’t use condoms. Help!
A: One word, confrontation. Confront your partner and then look for any sign or gut feelings that the person is lying.
49Q: My partner doesn’t like me touching him – what’s a girl to do?
A: Some men just are like that but he should respect that you want to touch him. Compromise. Come to a conclusion together.
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