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Let's do a little Q&A, shall we...

Is Hef a polygamist?

According to Wikipedia, technically, he's not a polygamist as he doesn't claim to be married to the girls. Besides, he never actually divorced his previous wife Kimberly Conrad. Are other polygamists as dashing as Hef? Not really, no. Over at the Two Wives 'Polygamy Personals' website, they have quite a few men looking for extra wives, but single women are in short supply. I can't imagine why. Here's an ad from 'Ron': "Married 2 years. No children. Maybe in a few years. Still young. Looking for same. Like to have fun, fun, fun. In a good way, tho. Like music, stuff to move to. Dancing too, I guess. But not crazy into it. You know what I mean. Hard workers. We keep our bills paid. No drugs. No way. We are looking for permanent thing here. If you're not serious, no need to reply. Yes, we may like fun but we are not after one night stands and stuff like that. You know what I mean. We're not the skinniest people, but we are not obese. You are probably the same. Tell us what you think, feel, hope for in life. Stuff like that. You know what I mean."Sounds great, hey girls? Who are these 'girlfriends' anyway?

Kendra, Bridget, Hef and Holly . Challenging the perception that they are interchangeable Babushka dolls, the three current girlfriends actually star in a show called The Girls Next Door about their everyday lives with Hugh. The tagline is "We Call It a Fantasy. They Call It Home." They're not necessarily brainless either. Bridget, for example, is working towards her second masters degree. She's also over 30. Perhaps Hef hasn't noticed. The girls all have MySpace profiles too, which can be found here. Most of the comments are from girls. Interesting.

Do they all sleep in the same bed?

No. According to Wikipedia's biography of Hef, only his main girlfriend, Holly Madison, shares his bed: "The 2005 E! reality television series The Girls Next Door chronicles Hefner's three most recent girlfriends, Holly Madison, Bridget Marquardt and Kendra Wilkinson. The three all spend time with Hefner, though Madison shares his bed at night and appears to be the most "involved" with Hefner."How does Hef "handle three girlfriends at once"? "Keep your heart open. Hey, I realize my life is a unique one, but it works for me, and there are many ways to lead an honest, decent life. I've actually had it both ways. I was married twice. I was faithful. I'm much happier now." -Hefner, as quoted in the 'Wolf Files'. Have any of the bunnies ever disclosed what goes on in the mansion?Why yes. Who knows how true it is, but Jill Ann Spaulding has written a book on the topic called: Jill Ann: An insider's view of what really goes on behind closed doors at the Playboy Mansion .

Here are a couple of fascinating quotes from an interview with her:City Pages: Why do you think so many of Hugh Hefner's girlfriends are reluctant to admit that they actually have sex with the guy? One would assume that a woman and a man in a so-called relationship would sleep together, and yet all of the girlfriends have been very vague in the press. Jill Ann Spaulding: I think sleeping with someone as old as their great-grandfather isn't that prestigious. Saying you're beautiful enough to be in Playboy is one thing. Letting everyone know the only way you made it was having sex with the editor-in-chief is something most girls would leave out of the conversation. CP: According to your book, Hef's girlfriends lived by a very strict code of conduct: They were expected to arrange themselves in a certain way for public appearances, and were expressly forbidden to take their eyes off Hefner. Did you ever see anyone break the rules or defy Hefner's authority? Spaulding: Not everyone acted like a robot. When I was out once, I noticed one girl looking out into the crowd and going unaccompanied to the bathroom. However, she wasn't a girlfriend for much longer. I think the only time they don't live by the strict code of conduct is when they're burned out and don't really care if they are going to get kicked out or not. A more in-depth interview with her can be found here. Again, it's fascinating stuff. According to Jill Ann, the girls do have sex with Hugh, and he uses Viagra. After she refused to have sex with Hef, she wasn't exactly thrown out of the mansion, but left on her own, "...because I didn't like what was going on and I wasn't going to participate. I wanted to be a Playmate, but the unprotected sex with a 78 year-old great-grandpa just wasn't my idea- thing." Where can I find more information about what it's like to be one of Hef's girlfriends?There is a great blog post here, which documents the perks of the job, such as free dry cleaning and a shopping allowance, as well as some of the downfalls, like having to adhere to a strict curfew. It doesn't sound very glamorous, does it? I hope the girls who live with him now are there because they want to be, and not because of a desire to be famous or in the magazine.I've always had a certain respect for Hef, as an icon of the sexual revolution and as the ultimate 'bachelor'. However, a lot of what I've been reading has made me question this respect. I'm beginning to think he's nothing more than a dirty old man.

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